As far as we’ve come technologically and intellectually in our culture, I find it disappointing that we still measure much of our human experience on the superficial. Worse, we base important societal roles on “the look of things,” and miss our own capacity for depth and meaning. Leadership is an excellent example of this. If I were to ask you to picture a leader in your head right now, there is a good chance you would picture someone on a stage. Perhaps they are using their hands to talk, and every word that comes out of their mouth is eloquent. [...]