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What I am Learning About Healing

Often, when we or someone we know is sick or hurting, we can’t help but ask: If God can heal me/them, why doesn’t He? On Monday, I shared that I struggle with an ailment that there seems to be no definitive cure or treatment for in our medical world. On my long journey to even get a diagnosis, we have prayed many prayers, asking God to heal me the way my doctors couldn’t seem to. Through all of this, I have wondered what God’s purposes are by not healing me, even when I believe that He can. However, this is [...]

By |2018-07-19T20:28:06+00:00April 20th, 2017|Categories: Faith, Health, Hope, Learn, Love Learn Lead, perseverance|Comments Off on What I am Learning About Healing

He Sees You

Very often, people say they don’t believe in God because there is no proof; they say that they can’t see Him so He can’t exist. Lately though, I have been wondering if the problem is not that they can’t see Him, but rather that they feel as if He can't see them. One grey morning, I drove north, up the interstate. At first, I thought I was going to be late—that I hadn’t left early enough to beat the morning traffic, and so all I could focus on was the road. Then, as I drove around the city, I could [...]

By |2018-07-19T20:29:47+00:00April 17th, 2017|Categories: Faith, Health, Hope, perseverance, Waiting|Comments Off on He Sees You

Love Learn Lead April 13, 2017

If you have been reading this blog for a while, you know that this is our Love Learn Lead day. You also may have picked up on the fact that a lot of this blog is about loving, learning, and leading. That is because I believe those three things are how we all are called to live our lives—no matter how many people we lead, and no matter how many people we know. Whether our sphere of influence is huge or tiny, we all have an important role to play in our world. For today’s Love Learn Lead, I talk [...]

By |2018-07-19T20:31:23+00:00April 13th, 2017|Categories: Balance, Lead, Learn, Love, Love Learn Lead, Mentoring|Comments Off on Love Learn Lead April 13, 2017

What Has Marked You?

A few years ago, my eyebrows were in bad shape. I needed to get them waxed but my appointment wasn’t for a few weeks. So, I stopped in at a salon in the mall. They said they could take me and pointed to a girl in the back of the shop who would be with me in a minute. Now, you can always tell when someone is new at something. They give you a nervous smile and all of their movements are hesitant. That is exactly how this girl behaved. But by the time I realized all of this, I [...]

By |2018-07-19T20:33:34+00:00April 10th, 2017|Categories: Faith, Freedom, Health, Hope|Comments Off on What Has Marked You?

Love Learn Lead April 6, 2017

Spring is truly here, and if we had any question about what month it is—here in Pennsylvania, the rainy forecast is leaving us no doubt. April has arrived. But though most days it is still dark and gloomy, this darkness is the beginning of new life. Pretty soon, the trees will be green again, and our farmer’s market will be filled with local strawberries and asparagus. Good things are coming, we just can’t see them yet. This time of year is reminding me that just as things are always darkest right before dawn, so it is with life. We just [...]

By |2018-07-19T20:35:10+00:00April 6th, 2017|Categories: Good Books, Health, Lead, Learn, Love, Love Learn Lead, Waiting|Comments Off on Love Learn Lead April 6, 2017

What Will Mark You?

One day, when I was a youth pastor, one of my students came into my office just to show me her tattoo. She closed the door, and then lifted her shirt up just enough to show me a bright and beautiful cherry tree stretching across her left ribs and down her side. It was new. There was still a little red around the edges, but you could tell she felt very proud of it. Then, a few years later, I sat at a Panera with another student. I listened as she described the many colorful tattoos that flowed down her [...]

By |2018-07-19T20:36:02+00:00April 3rd, 2017|Categories: Character, Identity, Success|Comments Off on What Will Mark You?

Love Learn Lead March 30, 2017

Happy Thursday! —I have to warn you, if you get squeamish, you might want to skip the story I am about to tell, and go straight to “Love.”  But last Thursday, I was working on a project and sliced off a small piece of my finger. Thankfully, it was early in the morning so my husband was still around and could help me bandage it up (stitches were not an option). But the whole ordeal was rather upsetting. It was so bad, I FaceTimed my sister who is a nurse and asked her what to do because the bleeding was [...]

By |2018-07-19T20:37:43+00:00March 30th, 2017|Categories: Lead, Learn, Love, Love Learn Lead|Comments Off on Love Learn Lead March 30, 2017

Hope Hangs Above our Kitchen Sink

Whenever you go on a long journey, there are things you need to take with you, to make it to your destination. At the bare minimum, this usually means food and water. The time my husband and I hiked Mount Katahdin in Maine, with some friends, we filled our packs with trail mix, cliff bars, multiple water bottles, and PB&J sandwiches. When we did a road trip through Northern Ireland, we made stops for gluten free crackers, smoked salmon, and hot tea. Any trip worth taking requires supplies. But not all journeys are outward and physical. Some of the longest [...]

By |2018-07-19T20:38:58+00:00March 27th, 2017|Categories: Character, Hope, perseverance|Comments Off on Hope Hangs Above our Kitchen Sink

Learn: Like Riding a Bike

Do you remember when you first learned to ride a bike? I am guessing, that like me, you didn’t automatically get on and ride off into the sunset. You probably had a few wipe outs and falls. Maybe you struggled with making a sharp turn. Or perhaps breaking was your problem. Either way, I am sure you have a few memories of your mom or dad putting bandaids on your scraped knees, like I do. Riding a bike certainly isn’t the hardest thing we’ve ever learned, but it wasn’t easy either. I think many of us have forgotten that fact. [...]

By |2018-07-19T20:39:52+00:00March 23rd, 2017|Categories: Failure, Hope, Lead, Learn, Love, Love Learn Lead, Success, Uncategorized|Comments Off on Learn: Like Riding a Bike

Red Light

Do you remember the last time you sat at a stop light? Do you remember what you were thinking? Were you glad for a moment to check your phone? Did you take a deep breath and chill? Or, were you like me most days—staring at the light, willing it to turn green? Whenever we are headed somewhere—especially if its good—the last thing we want to run into, is a red light. We are excited, ready to go, anxious to get there—we don’t want to stop. We want to move. Hitting red lights is a pain. Yet the worst ones in [...]

By |2018-07-19T20:49:40+00:00March 20th, 2017|Categories: Hope, Identity, Success, Waiting|Comments Off on Red Light

ABOUT ME

I’m a life coach and writer who loves coffee, adventure, and the ocean. I want to live a truly good story, and I want to help you do the same. 

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